In the beginning, students are usually eager to practice. But after a while, the excitement can wear off and the routine can feel mundane. So, how do you keep your child (or even yourself) motivated to continue practicing?
After teaching for over 13 years, I’ve discovered these 5 strategies to be the most helpful in keeping students motivated and engaged in their musical journey:
1. Find the Right Teacher
The teacher-student relationship is crucial. You want to find a vocal teacher whose teaching philosophy aligns with your child’s goals.
If a teacher’s focus is on winning competitions but your child just wants to enjoy learning music, it might not be the best fit.
It’s also important to consider chemistry between the teacher and the student. As a student’s goals evolve over time, sometimes a change in teaching style—or even teacher—might be necessary.
💡 I hold regular parent-teacher check-ins to ensure everyone is still on the same page and the student is happy and engaged.
2. Let the Child Set Their Own Practice Schedule
Give your child control over when they practice each day.
When they choose their own practice time, they take more ownership of their learning.
Practice won’t feel like a chore—it becomes an activity they chose for themselves.
This small shift in control can have a big impact on their consistency and motivation.
3. Celebrate Their Accomplishments
Recognition builds confidence and motivation.
I host yearly Summer and Winter recitals where students perform the pieces they’ve worked hard on.
Whether it’s finishing a level, mastering a tough piece, or simply being consistent in practice—celebrate their wins.
This could be through:
Verbal praise
Small rewards or prizes
Public recognition during lessons or recitals
🙌 Performing in front of an audience is a huge confidence booster and gives them something to work toward.
4. Let Them Play Songs They Love
Students stay more motivated when they enjoy the music they’re learning.
After covering the basics in their method books, I allow students to choose songs they like to play by ear or sight-read.
When students connect emotionally with a piece, they’re naturally more inclined to practice it.
Balance is key—teach theory and technique, but don’t forget the joy of simply playing for fun.
5. Help Them Appreciate Music
It’s important for children to understand that learning music is a privilege, not a chore.
Take them to live concerts
Expose them to various musical styles
Introduce them to real-life musicians and their stories
Even professional musicians need inspiration. Kids need it even more as they work hard to build new skills. Show them what’s possible and help them see the bigger picture—how learning music can open doors and shape their future.
🎵 Final Thoughts
Staying motivated to practice doesn’t happen automatically—it takes intention, support, and sometimes creativity. But with the right environment and encouragement, your child can develop a lifelong love for music.
