The reason many people sing well alone but struggle in front of others often comes down to relaxation. When you’re by yourself, you’re naturally more at ease. To sing your best, you need to be relaxed in both body and mind. We carry tension in our shoulders, neck, jaw, tongue, face, and back without even realizing it. This becomes worse when nerves set in, as breathing speeds up—making it harder to maintain proper vocal control.
When I work with my vocal students, I also teach them to become more in tune with their bodies. Recognizing tension is the first step toward releasing it. Breathing is another essential skill—learning how to regulate your breath keeps your singing healthy and strong.
Here are some steps that can help: tune into your body, ground yourself, and shift your mindset. Instead of worrying about what others think of your voice, focus on yourself. Positive thinking, steady breathing, and even practicing in front of a mirror can prepare you to perform confidently in front of a crowd.
If stage fright is holding you back, I cover more practical strategies in my sing today online course. You’ll find step-by-step techniques to improve confidence, posture, and vocal performance. For those seeking personal guidance, my private singing classes and group singing lessons also provide a supportive environment to overcome nerves.